THIS IS HOW DIGITAL RELATIONSHIP TURNS OFF THE LIGHT

May Be Some Words Might Result To A Little Bit Change In The Love Arena 

Special Edition By Mr. Peter John  (CEO-BCC)

If you are not interested and everyone around you is talking about it, then you are living underworld. Love stories have been the most followed by people around the world and share common features even if the language differs. To believe about it, just have a search on which TV channels most people follow, music people love and Superstars they admire.
On my side, I can declare that to be among the people who find better solutions day by day to the problems of digital relationships that keep occurring in the community, though am not sure since matters are complicated. Its time for Generation Y to decide on their relationship goals despite the rapid interaction of people and ideas surrounding them. Generation Y in the digital age is what produces Digital relationships the common future of love we see today. It is a conditional love to the most cases I may say!.

Digital love gives out many features such as frustrations, stress, suicide, breakups, cold wars, marriage, single parenting and so much more. The features could be happening even before the digital age but at large frequency are happening in the current generation. If you can find the best couples with their goal met and still moving in a better way possible then it shows an extraordinary sense of maturity and exceptional love that makes stories during valentines season.
Yes, there are a million reasons to applaud couples in deep love relationships despite digital challenges they can settle the differences and keep moving. If the inner problems can be settled with an inner solution then it's the better way for you digital couples to make it as heroes. But what happens to the 99% who never make it through just before and after marriage? It's the best time for event/wedding planners to grab millions of real money from digital couples and end like nothing was lost during the events.  The wedding costs a lot than the investment of love between the digital couples I can argue. 

Maybe, these are among the causes of how digital relationship ends up just like turning off a light your electric bulb in the room. The process of turning on determines the speed of letting it off. It is amazing some of generation X nowadays try to mingle with Generation Y making Digital relationships and ends turning off their life with the speed of light. If you are among them, don t try it again on Facebook! 

Reason 1: Digital speed causes accidents

The code of love changes so its process has a different way too. The shortest attraction period with a lot of digital features is the driving factor for the lady and man to enter the relationship that even them don't know more about it, though its conditions that led them where they belong. Unlike the analog kind of love back then where one would like to trace the origin of the other, character, etc those attributes do not work anymore because speed matters and time has its value. If you know you know!

Reason 2: Rapid interaction of people and ideas

Most of the parenting from Generation X never get behind from monitoring the digital relationships of their generation Y. Duties end up deciding for them what to study, where to work, and who to engage with in the future. They search for clarity via Social media networks, Facebook posts, IG and others can stalk you on Snap chat. Later on, they can make the decision of either to get married to the fancy lady or not. Bad luck today there occurs big integrity between personal behavior and social networks account.

Reason 3: Digitalization of priorities

Feel the story of a handicapped income lady of the digital kind, who decides to marry a humble man just because of marital status, later on, she decides to have a kid only and leaves the man in a modern fashion to be a single mother. On another side, the jackpot man who decides to get married to a lady as a sign of digital relationship goal, later on, decides to follow after her friends and sometimes sisters in law to be a king of Mswati land, Lol!. This is not fun since it happens most of the time, just like the fake concept of single parenting. It's a simple form of life marketing nowadays. Most of the single parenting causes and effects are due to the digital concept of life marketing.

Reason 4: Passwords and patterns

Here comes the new digital panic. I wonder how people in the digital era being too genius to claim 10 passwords and patterns for each app in the smartphone. The loss of self-esteem, cardiac arrest, and stroke when a smartphone left behind is unlocked and it is a nearby couple. Digital couples force fake trust and faith which can't last long. The future technology shall embody digital phone with the human brain and skin, I think it will fit the digital relationships of the future. The famous challenge you may pose to Generation Y is keeping the smartphones without patterns and passwords when married.

Reason 5: Unjustified Digital rules

Have you ever feel the pain of missing the call from your potential prospective employer? In the Generation Y mode, that might not cost much as missing a text from a fiance who is seen online on Whatsapp. This leads to a rise of new sin. If you are online and not texting your digital love then it's evil. Some may prefer using hacked apps to prevent themselves from known mistakes. If one is not online and the other cannot connect through video call then it's against the law. Liking a post of her hater may cause cardiac arrest and never try it on a digital relationship maybe with a fake account. Now, it's valentine's day and you don't post her/him on status, stories, TikTok, or snap chat it's going against the rule. You may suffer the consequences of acting against the rule. Not posting him on a new fuel economical car, that means hate, show off means true love. If you do not know the codes then it's hard to survive the new unjustified rules.

So what to be done?

There is no proved solution to what is happening but at least I can suggest flexibility. Flexibility is important in prioritizing and making important decisions. I love my family when it comes to making decisions on small stuff like subscribing to DStv bundles, sometimes we might not prefer premium, compact but we may go for family and access. Our priority is the availability of Disney junior and Boomerang for kids and few entertainment channels. As parents we never get enough chances to watch TV since we have smartphones. Likewise in Digital relationships members must try to be flexible according to their situations and identify their priorities from the beginning and not at the end.

I like the Swahili say "Pambana na hali yako" to get used to solving the problems of digital relationships. Of course,  avoid finding some people calling themselves Mentors, Psychologists, and relationship consultants. The kind of people has got bigger problems than the ones you have right now in their digital relationships. How can someone blind instruct another blind to reach destiny? You should always try to solve the problems from your focal point of view. Try to understand each other better before moving to the next bigger steps of life. It really hurts to waste time in one way or another, being paranoid or stressed. 

But this should not be the case, you might opt to deny me too. The bigger case here is how you have to surprise your valentine digital love with a special gift from PREPAX GIFTS and FLOWERS, tap and find the link to get your order for the special valentine event. Despite the challenges and problems faces by Digital love we still have a chance to prove Hope in special moments like Valentine's Day. Take your time today and plan to show love for your digital loved ones with PREPAX GIFTS & FLOWERS. It is only done when you decide to live the digital way or traditional style. It is true we have some Generation Y in love but still living with analog way and still got challenges that persist in the digital style of relationship. We have each reason to advance with care, faith, trust, and flexibility.

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